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bonnie
04-03-2008, 03:54 PM
This month marks Chicken and my 1st year together! I can't believe we made it!
For those of you who don't know, I rescued Chicken last year from my my in laws. They (Matt's mother and Stepfather) got Chicken about 3 years ago from a pet store. They begged and begged the lady to sell him to them. Well, finally she needed money bad enough that off to their house went a little bird. He was kept in a very small cage, I'm talking Cockatiel size. The paint was peeling off the cage and there weren't food or water bowls hanging like they should have been, they were food bowls sitting in the bottom of the cage. It was rarely cleaned and he lived in a very bad state for the 2 years he was there. They named the bird BA. This stood for Bad @$$. Very soon after he got there he started the normal M2 screaming. He was locked up and covered all the time in this tiny cage on the floor of a dirty kitchen because that was the only way they thought they could make him quiet.
I finally had enough. I started cleaning the cage and letting the bird out for a little socializing when I went over to see Matthew(then he was my boyfriend). He grew very attached to me. I would cry some nights when I had to lock him back up and leave. One night, after a particularly bad time of cleaning the poop off of his feet (he didn't have a perch for a few months) and his cage was filthy and he didn't have any water, I just snapped. I cried the whole way home. And I prayed. I prayed that God would let me get that bird out of the hell he was in. After that, I started hinting that they give him to me for a wedding gift.
When Matthew finally moved out a few months before we got married I freaked out. Who was going to take care of my bird now? Well, a few weeks later, God answered my prayers. Matthew's mother called me saying that her and her husband had gotten in a fight. She was drunk... or something... and told me to come get this blankin bird because he wouldn't stop biting her and screaming. She told me that I could take him home with me if I brought her a 6 pack of beer. So, I got a $1,200 bird for a bout $7.00.
When I got out there, it was the worst I'd ever seen. He had no food, he was absolutely filthy and his water dish that usually at least had some sludge in it was bone dry. I stuck my arm in and he stepped up right away. Didn't even try to bite. I took him straight to the sink and let him drink until he was content. It was SO sad. I loaded up the cage without another word. I was SO MAD I would have said something I would have regretted. As we were leaving she said that if my land lord wouldn't let me keep him I had to bring him back. I told her he was never coming back there even if I couldn't keep him.
After we got him home and the honeymoon period was over we had BIG screaming and biting issues. I considered sending him on down the line more than once. About this time I found Larry, Anna, Evelyn and others of you on another board. I was so frustrated. Everyone spent their valuable time talking me through those tough days. Larry even spent time on the phone with me.
I'm very glad I had what I now call my 'birdy family'. If not for you, I would not have my wonderful little companion...

too&me
04-03-2008, 04:02 PM
I know the story from your postings before you got him & I still had tears running down my cheeks here at work. Lucky lucky Chicken, what a wonderful home he has now you can both rejoice. Celebrating Chickens first year of home at last!:cdnc::dancered:

birdie
04-03-2008, 04:03 PM
:tears: Bonnie, I hadn't remembered what all your Chicken had gone through to find you. I have tears streaming down my face. I'm SO glad you took him home and give him the love he deserves!
Congrats on your year anniversary with him! :yeah::dancered:

Debz_Crew
04-03-2008, 04:13 PM
Awww, poor little Chicken having to live like that until you were able to get him! :( That's so heartbreaking! :cry1:

He's so blessed to have you, and to know what a real home and real love are! I'm so glad it all worked out. :hart:

Patty, Linus and Co.
04-03-2008, 04:27 PM
Bonnie, I already knew this story and it still made me tear up. Lucky Chicken, lucky you.

Julie
04-03-2008, 05:19 PM
Bonnie,

You and your wonderful Chicken have many many years to come of wonderful love and companionship! Congrats on your anniversary, and here is to many MANY more!

:yahoo::nuts::hugs:

Chrissy and Flock
04-03-2008, 05:25 PM
Wow... congratulations Bonnie I did not know Chickens story... he is so lucky to have you. I am so glad you found this birdy family to help you with him... it's amazing what 6pack of beer will buy... good thing you had $7.00

Happy dance for Bonnie and Chicken....:hpydnc::pendnc::cdnc::cdnc::ckdnc::ckd nc:

Gen120
04-03-2008, 07:14 PM
aww...I am so glad that you got her..and rescued her!:)
I can tell that you have a very special bond with Chicken!!
HAPPY HATCHDAY CHICKEN!

Sashagirl
04-03-2008, 07:30 PM
:tears: So sorry about Chicken's awful life but I'm so glad you were his Guardian Angel.Happy Anniversary Bonnie & Chicken!:dancered:

Larry, Baby and Me
04-03-2008, 10:22 PM
Bonnie,

I am crying - both sad and happy at the same time.

I knew your story with Chicken - but reading it - sent it home to my heart.

Thank you for sharing.

Larry, Baby and Me
04-03-2008, 11:17 PM
Bonnie Girl,

Now that I can see to type - I will add...

I clearly remember your first post on BnW ToozTalk. You were talikng about your MIL. I wondered what kind of bird was a MIL. And then I finally figured out you were talking about your Mother-In-Law. I remember when you and Matt got married and you posted your wedding pictures. At that moment I said to my self - There's my Bonnie Girl.

And then came Chicken's screaming. It was close to non-stop. He was driving you crazy. And then we talked about how we humans tend to lump all bird vocalizations into one basket and call it screaming. And then you learned to listen to the different sounds Chicken was making - ear piercing loud as they were. You learned to hear the slight differences between - I am scared, I am hungry, I am lonesom, I am tired.

You learned to break through the scream and listen to what he was trying to say. You worked hard and it has paid off. Now - you say in response to his "loud" voice... oh - he is tired - he wants to go to bed. Oh - he is lonely and needs a little of my attention. You even say - he is just being a bird... get used to it folks!

We never know how much we change other people's lives and other bird's lives by the little things we say and do to help them. Your life and Chicken's life have been changed forever - by the few words -- "don't listen to it as a scream - listen to it as he is trying to say something to you -you just have to figure out what it is".

You and Chicken both have come a long way in such a short period of time. You have been a good student. You listen well and put advice into action. Along the way you have gained knowledge and understanding. Along the way you have gained confidence and have helped others in return. And now you have been accepted into the honored position of a HappyBirdy Sentinel. You gently and lovingly watch over the HappyBirdy flock.

You are a good birdy mommy and a good Sentinel. I am honored to know you - my Bonnie Girl.

The Nest Gang
04-03-2008, 11:47 PM
Okay, you tore out my heart.:( And then gave it back. What an angel you are and thank goodness that you were there for Chicken or he would not have survived as long as he did. :dancered:God Bless you and Chicken and may you have many, many more years together. :luv: Happy Gotcha Day!

bonnie
04-04-2008, 12:59 AM
Bonnie Girl,


And then came Chicken's screaming. It was close to non-stop. He was driving you crazy. And then we talked about how we humans tend to lump all bird vocalizations into one basket and call it screaming. And then you learned to listen to the different sounds Chicken was making - ear piercing loud as they were. You learned to hear the slight differences between - I am scared, I am hungry, I am lonesom, I am tired.

You learned to break through the scream and listen to what he was trying to say. You worked hard and it has paid off. Now - you say in response to his "loud" voice... oh - he is tired - he wants to go to bed. Oh - he is lonely and needs a little of my attention. You even say - he is just being a bird... get used to it folks!

We never know how much we change other people's lives and other bird's lives by the little things we say and do to help them. Your life and Chicken's life have been changed forever - by the few words -- "don't listen to it as a scream - listen to it as he is trying to say something to you -you just have to figure out what it is".


This is SO true Larry. Chicken is the only bird in my house. I don't have an aviary full of birds. I fully believe that as his flock (my husband and I) we have to treat him like he is a human. He has his birdy moments, true. However, he is around humans all the time. We are all he knows. Treating him like a bird would be unfair to him, he doesn't completely know how to be one.
Just like a baby, I have to listen and interpret his 'cries'. As a 'mom' that is my job. I brought him into my home and busted my butt to make it work. It was very touch and go for awhile, but he is truely home now.
Thank you everyone for your kind words of Congratz!

FoxersArtist
04-04-2008, 05:23 AM
Bonnie, you are so amazing and I was so honored to meet you and Chicken in person. I just fell so in love with those beautiful deep eyes. Chicken really is such a beautiful little soul. I hear your story about him over again and I just cannot hear it enough, thinking, Wow! God really had a plan for you two. :) Happy 1st anniversary Bonnie, Matt & Chicken!
-Anna

Anne-Samantha's Mom
04-04-2008, 07:59 AM
Happy adoptio n day Chicken...and many many more....we love Chicken..and we love you!!!!!!